Monday, June 6, 2011
Just getting started
I am just getting started with my blog. Thanks for all the messages you have all sent for my birthday. I sincerely appreciate it.
Randy,
Happy Birthday!
I married someone that in SO many great ways is exactly like you. That alone tells you how great I think you are. Two experiences:
One, it was quite a few years ago when Aubrie was 2 or 3. Ryan and I were with you in the car and we were talking about how overwhelmed we felt about parenting and I think at that point we were sincerely feeling like we were ruining our daughter because we didn't know how to handle her sometimes (well...most of the time for about a year there). We felt like we were just squishing the personality right out of her because of the way we were parenting. We were expressing all of this to you. and what did you do....you laughed--really hard actually. In a nutshell you told us that Aubrie was one of the luckiest girls to come to our family and have the parents she does and that we were great parents. There wasn't any advice given or anything like that. And really that was probably the best thing you could have done at the time because every time I think of that experience I think, if Randy with so many years experience as a dad could sit there and just laugh at us while we are pouring out our hearts in frustration because he thought what we were saying was so ridiculous--then maybe we are really not doing that bad. It has actually helped me SO many times since then.
Another experience that is in my recent memory was last summer...I was up at your house by myself with the kids (it was when Ryan and I were apart for those 6 weeks) and Karen was helping me by getting all of the kids in the car while I grabbed some last minute things from the house. I walked past the office where you were sitting and said goodbye. You said something and it started a conversation. I think Karen finally came inside to see where I was about 20 minutes later. And I actually don't even remember what we talked about specifically, but I remember feeling very loved by you and Karen that night. I felt like you knew that I was kind of having a hard time (I was pregnant with Blake and probably a little emotional) and feeling overwhelmed and you sensed it. I am grateful to have such wonderful inlaws. And I am grateful that the things that you taught Ryan as your son about integrity, hard work, sticking with something, loving God and putting family first are an integral part of our life as a couple and that they are being taught to our kids.
I love you!
Amber
Happy Birthday!
I married someone that in SO many great ways is exactly like you. That alone tells you how great I think you are. Two experiences:
One, it was quite a few years ago when Aubrie was 2 or 3. Ryan and I were with you in the car and we were talking about how overwhelmed we felt about parenting and I think at that point we were sincerely feeling like we were ruining our daughter because we didn't know how to handle her sometimes (well...most of the time for about a year there). We felt like we were just squishing the personality right out of her because of the way we were parenting. We were expressing all of this to you. and what did you do....you laughed--really hard actually. In a nutshell you told us that Aubrie was one of the luckiest girls to come to our family and have the parents she does and that we were great parents. There wasn't any advice given or anything like that. And really that was probably the best thing you could have done at the time because every time I think of that experience I think, if Randy with so many years experience as a dad could sit there and just laugh at us while we are pouring out our hearts in frustration because he thought what we were saying was so ridiculous--then maybe we are really not doing that bad. It has actually helped me SO many times since then.
Another experience that is in my recent memory was last summer...I was up at your house by myself with the kids (it was when Ryan and I were apart for those 6 weeks) and Karen was helping me by getting all of the kids in the car while I grabbed some last minute things from the house. I walked past the office where you were sitting and said goodbye. You said something and it started a conversation. I think Karen finally came inside to see where I was about 20 minutes later. And I actually don't even remember what we talked about specifically, but I remember feeling very loved by you and Karen that night. I felt like you knew that I was kind of having a hard time (I was pregnant with Blake and probably a little emotional) and feeling overwhelmed and you sensed it. I am grateful to have such wonderful inlaws. And I am grateful that the things that you taught Ryan as your son about integrity, hard work, sticking with something, loving God and putting family first are an integral part of our life as a couple and that they are being taught to our kids.
I love you!
Amber
HAPPY BIRTH!! PARA-BENS PRA' VOCE!!
Three Reasons Why I Love Randall Paul:
Humor - I have so many great memories of laughing with you over the years. I still remember being tickled by you as a kid. I remember laughing until our guts split to Bill Cosby. I remember watching "Matt Foley, the Motivational Speaker" on Saturday Night Live for the first time with you on the black & white TV in your bedroom upstairs in our home in Midland and both of us laughing so hard that we were crying. I have laughed with you countless times on the golf course. And then there were the times where you weren't laughing...but your personality mixed just right that it made mom laugh and that got me laughing (Paraguay, "let's pull over to get some 'pink eye'", putting the car in park and turning off the ignition in the middle of traffic just because mom said, "Randy! Stop so we can see the fireworks!"...just to name a few examples :)
Wisdom - I admit that I missed many of your nuggets of wisdom over the years, as I struggled to stretch my brain enough to capture 2% of your postulations on various subjects including politics, the "carnival in Babylon", stupid juvenile delinquents, how none of us will ever learn to work until we live on a farm, the spoiled kids next door, boot camp, how even the cows 'get it', something about my major malfunction, how decisions about college football are made by the "good 'ole boy network and their cronies in smoke-filled rooms behind closed doors", your utter disdain of Brent MUSHburger, never throw a curve-ball until you are nearing the end of puberty, and the evil empire that is the Democratic Party. Your wisdom is vast and is what makes you so unique and so great! :)
Testimony - I taught EQ last Sunday about the Book of Mormon and I shared an 8-minute version of your "bicycle trip". I realized in a new way that so much of the foundation of my testimony has been built on hearing that story over and over again. It has shaped my own testimony of the Book of Mormon. I shared with our quorum the change that happened in your life from the year after returning home from Vietnam to the time you ended your reading of the Book of Mormon in Omaha, Nebraska and decided to return home and change your life. I told them how reading the Book of Mormon brought you closer to God, as stated by Joseph Smith, "than by any other book" and, as a result, gave you purpose and direction. When I share that story and think of how great a father you are, it is a living miracle as to the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon to bring souls to Christ and the importance of knowing that the book is true by the power of the Holy Ghost. Your life is a constant reminder to all of us of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Dad, thank you for your living testimony.
I love you!
Ryan
Humor - I have so many great memories of laughing with you over the years. I still remember being tickled by you as a kid. I remember laughing until our guts split to Bill Cosby. I remember watching "Matt Foley, the Motivational Speaker" on Saturday Night Live for the first time with you on the black & white TV in your bedroom upstairs in our home in Midland and both of us laughing so hard that we were crying. I have laughed with you countless times on the golf course. And then there were the times where you weren't laughing...but your personality mixed just right that it made mom laugh and that got me laughing (Paraguay, "let's pull over to get some 'pink eye'", putting the car in park and turning off the ignition in the middle of traffic just because mom said, "Randy! Stop so we can see the fireworks!"...just to name a few examples :)
Wisdom - I admit that I missed many of your nuggets of wisdom over the years, as I struggled to stretch my brain enough to capture 2% of your postulations on various subjects including politics, the "carnival in Babylon", stupid juvenile delinquents, how none of us will ever learn to work until we live on a farm, the spoiled kids next door, boot camp, how even the cows 'get it', something about my major malfunction, how decisions about college football are made by the "good 'ole boy network and their cronies in smoke-filled rooms behind closed doors", your utter disdain of Brent MUSHburger, never throw a curve-ball until you are nearing the end of puberty, and the evil empire that is the Democratic Party. Your wisdom is vast and is what makes you so unique and so great! :)
Testimony - I taught EQ last Sunday about the Book of Mormon and I shared an 8-minute version of your "bicycle trip". I realized in a new way that so much of the foundation of my testimony has been built on hearing that story over and over again. It has shaped my own testimony of the Book of Mormon. I shared with our quorum the change that happened in your life from the year after returning home from Vietnam to the time you ended your reading of the Book of Mormon in Omaha, Nebraska and decided to return home and change your life. I told them how reading the Book of Mormon brought you closer to God, as stated by Joseph Smith, "than by any other book" and, as a result, gave you purpose and direction. When I share that story and think of how great a father you are, it is a living miracle as to the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon to bring souls to Christ and the importance of knowing that the book is true by the power of the Holy Ghost. Your life is a constant reminder to all of us of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Dad, thank you for your living testimony.
I love you!
Ryan
Happy Birthday Randy!
Randy,
Happy birthday! I love you for the wonderful example you are to all of us. As I have become a father and tried to assume that role, I am beginning to understand more how much our parents sacrifice for us. As I have watched you over these past two years, I have come to recognize just some of the sacrifices you continually in order to serve your family. Being married to such a wonderful woman and seeing her sensitivity to the spirit and to the feelings of others, I understand that who she is is a direct result of the sacrifices and effort you and Karen put into raising your children. I look forward to seeing you in August. I love you.
Love,
Dave
Happy Birth!!!
Dad,
I'm so sad that I can't be there in person to tell you all the many reasons that I love you; hearing your "I love you's" to me on my birthday have always made it pretty special and I wish I could do the same for you.
Well, I love you because of your tender spirit. Dave and I were just teaching some investigators and I relayed to them an experience I had with you when I was much younger. Just you and I had driven to the grocery store and we'd decided to race from the car into the store and you said something sarcastic like, "I killed you!" But an hour later, I remember you stopping in the middle of what we were doing, looking at my eyes and saying sorry for making that previous comment. I honestly had forgotten what the comment had been, but the memory of your humble and meek heart stuck with me. You are a great example of being sensitive to the spirit so as to follow little promptings that have changed your nature. You truly are becoming more and more like the Savior and what a blessing it is to have your example in my life! I also love your desire to learn. I think this comes with a humble heart, but your drive to continued education in both the scriptures and every other aspect of life inspires me. I love your ability to laugh, to inwardly feel love for others and outwardly show that love to others. I love the habits that you encouraged each of us to develop throughout life - (daily scripture reading, morning and evening family prayer, work ethic; in and outside of the home, daily exercise). The list goes on, but I just realized that all these things you have taught us are all about being balanced and consistent. This is exactly who and what you are and I would truly be honored to be half the person you are! I love you and hope you have a wonderful birthday! You are the greatest!!!
Love Karla
I'm so sad that I can't be there in person to tell you all the many reasons that I love you; hearing your "I love you's" to me on my birthday have always made it pretty special and I wish I could do the same for you.
Well, I love you because of your tender spirit. Dave and I were just teaching some investigators and I relayed to them an experience I had with you when I was much younger. Just you and I had driven to the grocery store and we'd decided to race from the car into the store and you said something sarcastic like, "I killed you!" But an hour later, I remember you stopping in the middle of what we were doing, looking at my eyes and saying sorry for making that previous comment. I honestly had forgotten what the comment had been, but the memory of your humble and meek heart stuck with me. You are a great example of being sensitive to the spirit so as to follow little promptings that have changed your nature. You truly are becoming more and more like the Savior and what a blessing it is to have your example in my life! I also love your desire to learn. I think this comes with a humble heart, but your drive to continued education in both the scriptures and every other aspect of life inspires me. I love your ability to laugh, to inwardly feel love for others and outwardly show that love to others. I love the habits that you encouraged each of us to develop throughout life - (daily scripture reading, morning and evening family prayer, work ethic; in and outside of the home, daily exercise). The list goes on, but I just realized that all these things you have taught us are all about being balanced and consistent. This is exactly who and what you are and I would truly be honored to be half the person you are! I love you and hope you have a wonderful birthday! You are the greatest!!!
Love Karla
Sunday, June 5, 2011
happy b day
happy birthday dad. I love you because of how great of a teacher you are. you will always jump on the opportunity to teach. It is always so fun to come and see you and have great conversations. I love you because of how much fun it is golfing with you. I think that all of your daughters need to go golfing with you just to see you in golf mode, they are missing out. I also love you because of how you have raised your kids Laura I know looks up to you so much and she has learned so much from you and always references you as we try and raise our kids. Thanks for everything you do,
I love you
Love Chad
I love you
Love Chad
Happy Birthday Dad!!
I want you to know how much i love you. I'm so greatful for your example and love for the family. Specifically I was so touched by your last visit to Arizona when you took me out to dinner and spent so much time talking about life with me. It was a great memory to end the meeting with my car alarming the whole way home. I just feel like the world is becoming more lost and crazy and I feel that I always have a solid rock and example in you. Thanks for being so wonderful. I love you and hope you have a great day!! Wish I could be there.
Love,
Erika
I want you to know how much i love you. I'm so greatful for your example and love for the family. Specifically I was so touched by your last visit to Arizona when you took me out to dinner and spent so much time talking about life with me. It was a great memory to end the meeting with my car alarming the whole way home. I just feel like the world is becoming more lost and crazy and I feel that I always have a solid rock and example in you. Thanks for being so wonderful. I love you and hope you have a great day!! Wish I could be there.
Love,
Erika
Bienvenidos...
and Feliz Cumpleanos...
Randy--Happy Birthday! I can't wait to read your thoughts on politics for the 2012 race:) and all other thoughts you care to share with us. I very much enjoy your emails you send once in awhile.
We love you! Hope you have a very wonderful Birthday!
Welcome to the blogging world Randy! (and how much do we have to pay to get our blog but on the sidebar there:))
Randy--Happy Birthday! I can't wait to read your thoughts on politics for the 2012 race:) and all other thoughts you care to share with us. I very much enjoy your emails you send once in awhile.
We love you! Hope you have a very wonderful Birthday!
Welcome to the blogging world Randy! (and how much do we have to pay to get our blog but on the sidebar there:))
Saturday, June 4, 2011
Happy Birthday Dad
I wish that I could be there with you on your big day. I hope you are having a great birthday! Dad I love you so so much. I now invite you into the blogging world. Not to be up-to-date with the times but to stay up-to-date with your family and many grandkids. We also like to know what you and Mom are up to and what you are doing. I know you are good at photography and writing so a blog is PERFECT to share your insights and photos! I love you so much and appreciate all you have done and sacrificed to raise a strong family. Keep us updated and can't wait to see your first post.
I love you,
Laura
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